The Complete G-Spot Vibrator Guide
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G-spot vibrators are perhaps one of the best inventions known to man (and woman). They are fun to use, give incredible pleasure, can help all genders explore their genitals, are there for you when your partner is just too tired or not in the mood for sex and more. They just plain feel good!
Unless you have been living in a sexual cave for the last few decades, you have no doubt heard about the G-spot. If you are like a lot of people out there you may have had or continue to have trouble finding this often elusive erogenous zone. Trust me when I saw you are not alone. The G-spot continues to confuse and mystify even the most sexually experienced person and it may often seem like you or your partner couldn’t find it even with the help of Google Maps. But it is there, we promise.
Perhaps you were not aware there are vibrators designed specifically with the G-spot in mind. Perhaps you were but are unsure where to start. Not a problem. We are here to help.
The good news is there are a plethora of vibrators available with the specific purpose of stimulating the G-spot so you or your partner can reach new heights in the world of orgasms. It doesn’t matter if you are a beginner or advanced user in the sex toy universe. There are so many G-spot vibrators to choose from you can absolutely find what works for you and will get you where you are definitely going.
What & Where is the G-Spot?
The G-spot whose formal name is the Gräfenberg spot named after German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg, the guy who is credited with first documenting it, is an area usually found on the upper wall of the vagina about 2 to 3 inches from the vaginal opening. It can be difficult to pinpoint because there is no exact location that is universal to every woman. The tissue often feels different than the rest of the vagina with people reporting it feels rougher, is thicker and has more texture.
Stimulation of the G-spot has been known to contribute to strong sexual arousal in women and produce intense orgasms that often lead to ejaculation. One theory is that stimulation of the G-spot also stimulates some of the internal part of the clitoris and this helps lead to orgasm and ejaculation.
The most successful stimulation of the G-spot that results in orgasm is intense. This can mean longer and more precise stimulation. This is an excellent example of why a G-spot vibrator is just the ticket you need to arrive at your destination.
Why a G-Spot Vibrator?
So glad you asked! One of the best things you can do to get amazing G-spot pleasure is to invest in a G-spot stimulator. Why? There are some very good reasons why and I am going to tell you all about them. First, you need to think of it from a physics perspective. It is just not scientifically possible for someone’s finger, tongue, penis or any other part of their anatomy to move as quickly as a vibrator. That means you cannot get the same level of stimulation from someone using their body parts as you can with a vibrator. That is just plain science. Vibrators offer a level of stimulation on the next level.
Secondly, G-spot vibrators are easy to maneuver. Some people get put off by vibrators because they can be intimidating, look complicated and not seem user friendly. The truth is, if you are willing to explore the vast amount of G-spot vibrators on the market, you will see there is something for everyone. It can actually be very easy to find something that you are comfortable with and easy to use. Once you make your purchase and get that wonderful package delivered to your doorstep, you are only steps away from experiencing user friendly sexual pleasure. G-spot vibes are nothing to fear. With lubrication they slide right in and are easy to move around.
Third, using a vibrator is a great way to show your partner you care about her pleasure. It shows you are willing to go the extra mile and give her what she needs to have an intense orgasm. A selfish lover doesn’t do that. Recognizing that needing some battery operated stimulation to get your partner where she wants to go is an incredibly unselfish and caring thing to do. By getting a vibrator, G-spot or otherwise, you are investing in your sex life, your sexual connection to your partner and your relationship as a whole. It is not a chore. It is a purposeful choice to give someone the pleasure they want and deserve. The old adage about vibrators replacing men and women needing them because men do not know what they are doing in bed is just not true. Anyone can learn to be a good lover. Part of being a good lover is knowing what pleases your partner. Getting a vibrator to stimulate her G-spot shows you are secure in your sexual ability and do not feel threatened.
Fourth, G-vibes are a must when you are flying solo. Consider it self-care, an investment in yourself, a stop gap between partners or preferable to having sex with someone who doesn’t know how to pleasure you. However you refer to it, masturbation is a normal, healthy, sexual activity. There is no reason to give up sexual pleasure just because you do not have a partner right now and there is no reason to stop self pleasuring just because you do. If you are flying solo you can look at it as an opportunity to explore your body and what gives you pleasure. Then if you want to incorporate it into the sex you have with a partner later, all the better.
The Best G-Spot Vibrators
There are literally thousands of G-spot vibrators on the market. Some of them are not all that great and you don’t want to waste your money on them. If you buy a cheap vibrator you are going to get a cheap vibrator. Don’t count on it lasting too long, having a lot of features or even looking interesting. For good quality you need to invest a little and this is one investment that is definitely for yourself.
Take a look at some of our expert recommended vibrators just for the G-Spot.
First let’s talk about the Hitachi Magic Wand because it is absolutely the Cadillac of vibrators. It is a classic and never fails to get the job done. Know you must be wondering why this is being included because it is obviously not for internal or G-spot use. You are correct. However, one of the cool things about the Hitachi Magic Wand is that they never cease to come out with new attachments for it. It will never be obsolete.
There is of course, an attachment that is specifically designed for G-Spot stimulation:
All you have to do it put a little lube in the cup like part and slip it on the bulb of the magic wand. Then put a little lube on the blue curved end, slip it into the vagina with the tip facing up. Then pull back on the handle toward the bed and get ready to be peeled off the ceiling. Oh, and you have to turn it on of course!
Here is another take on a Hitachi Magic Wand attachment:
This does the same as the G-Spot attachment only one more. While it stimulates the internal G-spot, at the same time it stimulates the outer clitoral hood and clitoris. Double your pleasure, double your fun.
This little beauty is called the Butterfly Kiss G-Spot Vibrator and it is a great find!
The Butterfly Kiss G-Spot Vibrator
The bulbous head and curved shaft on this one has just the perfect length to massage your G-spot, while the flapping and fluttering wings give your clitoris the attention it deserves for earthquake like orgasms. It has multiple speeds and is perfect for first time or experienced users.
More Best-Selling G-Spot Vibes
- iRide Sit On G-Spot Dual Motor Vibrator
- Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator
- Body & Soul Dual Stimulating G-Spot Stimulating Love Bunny Vibrator
- Fifty Shades Darker Desire Explodes G Spot Vibrator
- Triple Play Wild G Vibe
It would be completely irresponsible not to mention LELO brand vibrators. At first when you look at them you may think they were designed by NASA. They are streamlined with clean lines and modern shapes and they give incredible stimulation to any part of the body you choose to use them on.
The LELO Insignia Soraya Luxury Dual-Action Waterproof Vibrator is one of many LELO products you should investigate.
It’s sleek aerodynamic design is also waterproof so you do not have to confine its use to dry land. Take it in the shower, bath or heck even your private swimming pool! The battery charges quick and can last for up to 4 hours.
One of the best features about LELO vibrators is that they are quiet. No need to worry about your neighbors on the other side of the wall hearing it. It has a reliable ringed handle so you can be confident you are going to be able to hang onto it when you insert it for some G-spot pleasure.
More LELO G-Spot Vibes
- LELO Liv 2 Luxury Rechargeable G-Spot and Clitoral Vibrator
- LELO Ida Rechargeable Remote Control Clitoral and G-Spot Massager
- LELO Elise 2 Dual Motor Luxury G-Spot Vibrator
- LELO Mona 2 Luxury Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator
- LELO Gigi 2 Luxury Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator
- LELO Mona Wave Rechargeable Waterproof G-Spot Vibrator
- LELO Insignia Isla Luxury Waterproof Vibrator
- LELO Tara Rotating USB Rechargeable Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator
Tips, Tricks and Taking Good Care of Your G-Spot Vibe
G-spot sex toys come in all sizes, are made of different materials and need care just like any other type of sex toy. Here are some things to help you on your G-spot journey as you navigate the world of sex toys:
- Think about your budget. We talked about quality before but one thing you may want to consider is what you want to invest your first time out. You can go big or go home and go all out and you won’t be disappointed but if budget is an issue you may want to go for something less expensive while you explore the world of G-spot stimulation and then add to your collection as you go along.
- Where does the power come from? Do you need to buy batteries? Is it rechargable? How long does it hold its charge? Does it have a cord attached that might get in the way? Is there a remote control that you need to keep track of? All important things you need information on so you are in the know.
- How do I explain to my partner how to use it? One of the best things you can do with a G-spot toy or any new toy if you are feeling unsure of how it operates is to use it by yourself the first time. Spend some time with it and learn all the features, speeds, bells and whistles. Make it your new friend and then introduce it to your significant other.
- Store it correctly. It can be fun to have a secret toy box or dresser drawer full of sex toys. Just be sure you are storing them in a light tight place, wrapped in clean towels or cloths or even put into separate bags. Some place at room temperature so they don’t warp from high heat. Don’t throw them all in against each other as some of the materials may not be good around other materials. Make is someplace easily accessible so you don’t have to get up and look for them in the moment.
- Clean them properly. Sex toys can take a little extra elbow grease to get them clean. Some of them have grooves and it is easy to miss handles and other parts that are considered non-essential. Not cleaning your sex toys properly is a good way to get and spread bacteria that will result in an infection. Don’t let this happen to you. Learn how to clean them. Just as there are special cleaners for kitchen counters, laundry and bathtubs there are cleaners designed specifically for sex toys, G-spot vibes included. Here is a link to some of the best sex toy cleaners.
Never put your sex toy in the dishwasher, microwave, washer, dryer or oven.
- Remember that sometimes it takes trying more than one vibrator before you find the one that works best for you. If you are not thrilled with your first choice or if it doesn't give you pleasure try again.
- If you don’t orgasm the first time out do not give up. Especially if this is your first time out. It is natural for some people to feel nervous or anxious about trying new things in bed no matter how badly you want to. It can take more than once to get it just right so you hit that magic spot. Also, some women don’t have an orgasm every single time they are sexually active. And that is okay. Take that leap of faith and try again. Sometimes just enjoying the pleasurable feeling a vibrator can give you is enough and it can also help you relax and be comfortable so you do orgasm. It is important that you do what you want at your own pace.
There is always something new to learn about sexuality and pleasure. Being open to learning can go a long way to a satisfying sex life. So go ahead and take the G-spot plunge. Get yourself or your partner a G-spot vibrator and don’t look back. You will be glad you did.