Dirty Talk: Have Better Sex and Control Your Woman’s Cum
Posted by Laurel House on
SECRET: Women create elaborate sexual fantasies that we play out in our minds while we are masturbating, as our minds run free. We dirty talk to ourselves, imagining your voice in our heads, talking us to and through our orgasms.
Part of the dirty talk isn’t just because it’s sexy, but it’s because we need to get out of our heads and into bed with you. As much as you might not want to know and imagine it, oftentimes, while having just "ok" sex, we start thinking about other things, such as work, the fight we had with our best friend, lists of things that we need to do- yes WHILE having sex with you. By talking dirty, you are pulling us back into the moment. By telling us “You love it when…” you are actually making us feel it (even if we weren’t really feeling it before you started telling us that we were).
Dirty talk is the easiest way to immediately improve your sex life and even control your woman’s orgasms. Yes, it can feel scary for people who aren’t used to doing it, but it’s particularly important to really relax and enjoy the moment. Men are visual creatures - just seeing your girl’s naked body, or one clad in sexy lingerie, will turn you on and turn off your mind. Women are emotional creatures - we are often stuck in our heads - this is why men often have affairs just because of the physical, while women start more emotional affairs. Talking dirty helps to keep your woman focused on you. You don’t have to come up with anything clever, but talk - say what you’re doing, what you’re feeling, what she is feeling, and more than that - what you want her to be feeling.
Dirty talk isn’t just about vaginal sex. It can also be incorporated into oral sex techniques.
Oral Sex
If she is the kind of woman who is shy about receiving oral sex, talk her through it. It gives her permission to accept your pleasure without giving anything in return.
Statements vs Questions
You don’t have to get creative, just talk about what you are experiencing and seeing and what is turning you on.
A few key starter phrases include:
-“I need you…”
-“I can’t control myself with you…”
-“You love it…”
-“You’re going to cum…”
What to say to her while GIVING her Oral Sex:
-“You want me to lick you, don’t you? …”
-“It makes you wet when I stick my tongue deep inside you, doesn’t it? …”
- “I love the taste of your pussy…”
Ask her to tell you that she loves it. As she repeats back to you what you say to her, she will relax more and more, and come closer to orgasm
-“Tell me that you love feeling my mouth all over your pussy…”
Reinforce how much you like pleasing her
-“It makes me so hard to go down on you and taste your dripping clit in my mouth…”
-“I need you to cum in my mouth…”
-“Tell me you want to cum in my mouth…”
What to say to her while RECEIVING Oral Sex:
You may feel so grateful that she is sucking your dick so you don’t feel the need to say anything, but that encouragement actually helps her to keep going.
-You make me so hard…”
-You love taking my cock deep inside your mouth, don’t you? ”
-I love it when you swirl your tongue around my hard cock…”
-Take me deep inside your mouth and taste my cum…”
You can even incorporate your favorite bondage toy for an even sexier experience!
Vaginal Sex
Now that you are face to face, you can whisper, you can say those dirty words pressed up against her lips, and you can up your dirty talk game. Get ready to give her ultimate pleasure with every word you say!
Say What?
-“I can’t control myself with you…”
-“You have the tightest little pussy…”
-“You love feeling me deep inside you, don’t you? Tell me that you love it…”
-“You’re so wet for me. I’m going to make you drip all over me…”
“You’re my naughty little whore, aren’t you…”
“I own your pussy, don’t I…”
Control her Cum
-“I’m going to shoot my cum inside you, baby. And you’re going to cum all over my dick…”
-“You’re going to cum so hard for me. I want you to cum for me… now…”
Now It’s Your Turn…
“I am going to cum all over your tits…”
“I’m going to take you…”
Now go and open your mouth, and make her want to open her legs.