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The world of anal fun is something that many people long to explore, and thanks to the ever-growing world of sex toys, learning what works for you has become even easier. Let’s face it, a little backdoor action isn’t up everyone’s alley (pun intended), but it can be extremely pleasurable if you’re open to it.
So, let’s get right down to it and explain away a frequent myth. Women absolutely love anal sex. Sometimes, people just assume that it’s usually the guy in the relationship who likes it, and that she eventually gives in… just that one time. However, there are a few very important reasons why both sexes enjoy some anal action.
Yep, the rumors are true. There’s a special part in the anus that, when reached, can provide sensations like you wouldn’t believe! For men, that would be the prostate, a gland that is about the size of a walnut and situated between the penis and the bladder. It’s just in front of the rectum, which is where all of the fun starts, right?
Therefore, it’s perfectly understandable why men would enjoy anal sex, but what about the ladies? Well, the good news is that Mother Nature took good care of her girls, too. There’s also a special spot in a woman’s anus that, when given a little attention, will respond in a climax exactly as what you’d expect from the G-spot. So, if you’re a woman and have been under the impression that you’re not going to get any satisfaction from your bum, you’re absolutely wrong!
Plus, there’s something about anal play that just seems to feel a little risqué to most people. And really, who doesn’t want to feel a little bit naughty?
However, it’s completely understandable that not everyone is ready to jump right in. And if it’s something that you’re definitely considering, a little preparation can actually make your first experience much more pleasurable. Are you ready to check out a few awesome anal foreplay tips — specifically for beginners?
Fun With Fingers
We all know that one of the best ways to decide exactly what we like is by using the sense of touch to the max. Our bodies are made with so many nerves and impulses that are just dying to experience pleasure. It’s pretty cool, right?
Now, one of the easiest ways to work into some backdoor fun is with a finger or two. Even the outer area around the anus is extremely sensitive, so you may want to start off without any penetration. Sometimes simply giving your bum a little attention is enough to start a few fireworks. Do this during foreplay before regular sex or when using your favorite luxury product, and see how your body reacts.
Next, if you’re ready to see what it feels like for something to slip slowly inside, you’re going to want to break out some lube. The good news is that lubricants are some of the best budget-friendly products out there, so you can choose your favorite scent, color or even taste. Plus, there are even lubes that can provide a warming sensation or a tingling effect, which can get you even more into the mood. A nice one is the Sliquid Organics Sensation Lubricant.
Just remember that any type of anal fun should always be accompanied by a generous portion of lube. The tissues inside of the anus are very delicate, and they can be torn easily, or there can be other abrasions. You definitely don’t want to find yourself on the sidelines before you even get off the bench! Anal exploration can be quite fun, so there’s no need to rush it!
Now, if you’ve played around enough to realize that you want a little more, it’s probably time to start thinking about choosing an anal plug or a even a training set. Let’s learn more.
A butt plug can be used completely on its own to provide a sense of “fullness” in the rectum. They range in size, so it’s always important to start off small to give the anus time to adjust.
Thankfully, what can be referred to as a “training kit” is available. These packages usually include three different-sized plugs. That way, it makes it easy (and economical) to move up to the next size when you feel like you’re ready. And there’s no rush! You can take this as slow as you like.
The Crystal Jellies Anal Starter Kit is a really nice option, and the plugs actually resemble real penises. They include sizes of 3.8 inches, 4.7 inches and 6.3 inches, so you are always ready to move into something bigger when the time is ready. Or, you can get really fun and exotic with the White Fluffy Bunny Tail Anal Plug.
Many people may just stick the anal plugs for their backdoor pleasure, but others like to utilize them in preparation for a large dildo or the real thing.
If you have a little anal play in mind, then an anal plug will provide that fullness that you desire, but at a pleasant price point. If you are new to the game, it’s ideal to look for a training kit, which will usually include three different-sized plugs. This means that you can start off small, and as your anus adjusts, you can move up to the next size. An anal plug can also prepare you for something bigger, such as an an anal dildo or a man’s penis.
Movin’ on Up
Once you’ve established that you’re ready to upgrade from a butt plug, regular dildos and even those with a little vibe action are next on the agenda. A few great ideas include going for something with a suction cup, so you can go hands-free, or selecting a slim glass dildo, which is great for easier insertion.
One other tip is to be sure to select something with a wider base or a handle that’s easy to hold onto. Remember… what goes in must come back out!
Cleanliness Is Next To…
Last but not least, a warm shower can be your perfect prelude or ending for a little anal action. Even though you may be tempted to go with the suds, still apply that lubricant!
Whether you’re going for some “me” time or fun with a partner, browse through the endless supply of products right here on Mindful. Your next big O is just around the corner!