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Whip It Up! The Guide to Using Whips
Everyone has seen those fun scenes on TV or a movie where the woman is cracking the whip, dressed head-to-toe in black leather. It sure looks like fun, doesn’t it? This type of role-playing idea has piqued the interest in more than a couple of people, sending them straight to the bondage gear section so that their fantasies can begin right away.
But when it comes to actually knowing how to use a whip, and which one is right for you, it might not be as easy as it looks? For example, are you looking for a little tickle? A little pleasure mixed with pain? Or, maybe what you’re after is actually something mixed in between.
If you take to the Internet and begin browsing through a few different sites, you’ll quickly find that you’re going to need a little education before you decide on your purchase. But, isn’t that the case with basically any type of new sex toy? The options can absolutely seem endless, so a little help is generally in order.
But first, let’s get to the root of the matter, and learn about these instincts, what a whip is and how it can be used.
Using a Whip for the First Time
There are all sorts of bondage toys on the market, and your desires can easily include blindfolds, gags and collars, or you may be more into handcuffs or restraints. However, more people today have an interest in whips and ticklers, and for good reason! A whip can often be the toy that helps you enter the world of bondage. If you’re a newbie - a whip is definitely a little less intimidating than bondage swings or some of the latest flirty pieces of sex furniture.
One of the first things, though, that you should keep in mind is using a toy like a whip with your partner. While the idea of just pulling it out and striking a pose in your sexiest piece of lingerie might sound like a good Friday night, it might deserve a light discussion. Now, you don’t have to ruin the surprise, but just get a general idea if they’re into that kind of thing, and whether they’re open to using the whip themselves, or if they’d like to see at the foot of the bed with it. But don’t worry - playing around with a whip isn’t that serious. You don’t have to have a hard hand, and it can be just a little bit of an introduction to the ultimate tease - unless you want more.
How to Inflict the Most Pleasure
While it might seem pretty simple to use a whip, you’d be surprised. The main thing to remember is that you should start off slowly. Grasp the whip in your dominant hand and lightly run it across your partner’s skin, so that they get the feeling of the texture and what type of whip it is that you’re actually using.
Next, give the whip a little twitch or flick, and see how your partner responds. He or she might ask for “more,” so be sure to keep the lines of communication going, especially the first time that you’re using this type of toy.
Lightly spank your partner with the whip, and you can gain more momentum and force, as their moans let you know that’s what they want. Also, remember that a whip can be used to tickle, by slowly dragging it across a super-sensitive area for extra sensations. If the whip is more of a tickler with feathers, it can be a fun, flirty method of foreplay.
Ultimately, just use your imagination and get creative with it. And don’t be afraid to switch up roles! A little dominance or being unexpectedly submissive could lead to something even more adventurous, like pegging, for example.
As we mentioned, there are several different types of whips to utilize, so take a few minutes to browse through some of our favorites before making your choice.
Top Whips of 2020
- Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Sting Riding Crop - What is known as a flogger can be a great whip to start off with using. Now, this is no cat of nine tails, but is a nice, soft faux leather whip, which is both light and durable. At about 15 inches in length, it can be easily stowed away, so you can pull it out at any time and deliver a little “punishment.” It has a nice handle with a good grip, which means this bad boy won’t be sliding out of your hand any time soon. Are you already imagining the possibilities?
- Icicles No. 38 Glass Handled Whip and Dildo - Now, are you ready to give something a little more extraordinary a try? Well, this baby not only comes with an 18-inch whip, but it’s glass handle also doubles for an exhilarating 6.5-inch dildo. Talk about options, right? Plus, you can get all sorts of ideas for a little reward and punishment dual action when the role-playing begins! This glass shaft is perfect for all types of play - even anal. As always, just be sure to slab on some of your favorite water-based lube, and you’re ready to rock ‘n roll!
- First Time Fetish Riding Crop - A riding crop can dole out the sweetest sting imaginable, and it can play a big part in all sorts of fun and games.At a little over 16 inches long, you can spank your favorite pony from a little distance. It’s firm and extremely durable, so you can use it for many punishments to come!
- Fetish Fantasy Limited Edition Feather Crop - Now, we did promise you a little tickling fun, didn’t we? This feather crop will definitely fit the bill! While the feather can tease, just remember that you can also give a good spanking with this plaything. You’re going to love every second!
As you continue to shop around, just remember to always purchase your toys from a trusted online supplier, where you will have a guarantee and a toy that will last through many entertaining escapades.And if you have any further questions, you can always reach out to Mindful’s customer service department.