Strap Ons & Harnesses

What Is a Strap On Dildo?

Of course, as you begin to search, you’ll find that there are all sorts of toys for men and playthings for women out there from which to choose. Whether you’re looking for big double-ended dildos or something very realistic, there is definitely something out there for just about anyone.

But what if you want to go completely hands-free, or you maybe you want to try out being the penetrator for a change?

Talk to your partner, and decide which fantasies you are interested in pursuing. This doesn’t have to be an awkward conversation. Throw on a few movies and talk about the things that you’d like to try, as well as the things that aren’t really up your alley. If you aren’t on the same page, find a happy medium and meet in the middle. It might just be time to get a little adventurous!

One of the funnest toys to use as a couple will strap on, with a dildo attached to it. If you’ve been thinking about purchasing a larger toy, then this might be the time to go ahead and give it a try! It all depends on who is using the toy and the way they will be using it. However, there are a few basic scenarios.

• A strap on can be used by a woman wanting to penetrate her male or female partner.
• A hollow strap on can be used by a man to provide more length and/or girth, when penetrating either a male or female.

When considering the type of dildo that will be attached to the harness, again, there are even more options. You can opt for something very realistic, or you can go with a pretty basic plaything. What matters is that it gets the job done, right?

Then, there’s the size to consider. If this is your first experimentation with anal play, you may want to start off with something smaller and work up to the size that you crave. Remember that the tissues of the anus can be easily torn, so use your favorite water-based lubricant and take it slow.

How to Use a Strap On Sex Toy

It’s important to know exactly how to use this type of toy so that you can thoroughly enjoy the results. The first thing is to understand exactly how to fix it to your body. Most harnesses will come with adjustable straps, so that it can be tightened according to your body size and shape. Ideally, you’ll want to ensure that the main portion of the harness rests just below your hips. It should be just tight enough to not move around in a frenzy, but just loose enough that it isn’t too uncomfortable.

If it’s a hollow strap on, then you will want to place the dildo portion over your penis, and then attach the harness. The main thing to keep in mind is that the big guy isn’t too cramped or pinched in any way. If you think it will loosen up or become more comfortable as you get into the act, it won’t. Make sure everything is in the proper place from the start.

And of course, start off a little slow until you get all of the logistics down. Part of the fun is experimenting with a new toy, so you don’t have to rush things. Trust us, this is part of the fun. Kink things up a little, and try some bondage gear. A nice black blindfold never goes out of fashion!

How to Clean Hollow Strap On Dildos or Harnesses

I don’t think that we need to stress just how important it always is to keep your toys clean. If something is going to come in contact with your skin, much less go inside of your body, you’ll want to make sure that you use a little simple soap and warm water to make sure that it’s ready to use.

Try to get into the habit of cleaning your toys right after you use them. Who wants to spoil the mood with a last-minute cleaning session?

How Do Lesbian Strap Ons Work?

When two female partners want to get in on the action, this toy is definitely the way to go. The fun part is that you can pick out the toy together, and then take turns using it.

They work just like any other strap on, so that one partner can penetrate the other. Just lube it up and get ready to rock!

Using Strapless Strap On Dildos

Now, this is a most interesting plaything! If you like the feeling of going hands-free but don’t necessarily like being constricted by a harness, then this is the product for you! Women utilize this toy by inserting the small end into their vagina, and then using the large end to insert in their partner. Sounds like fun, right?

Finding the Best Strap Ons and Harnesses

The good news is that you can always find exactly what you’re looking for right here on Mindful. Here are a couple of product ideas to help you get started:

• Fetish Fantasy Vibrating Strapless Strap On
• Ultra Harness and 8 Inch Realistic Dildo
• Crystal Jelly Flex Vibrating Hollow Strap-On 6 Inch

Now that you’re probably already in the mood, place your order and wait for your special package to arrive. It’s going to be the best box to ever arrive on your doorstep!