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Bondage Toys for Experts

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When you’re afraid that you’ve reached your plateau with the regular bondage gear that you’ve come across on a regular basis, then it might be high time to start considering yourself an expert. Of course, this doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re in the profession of professional dominance, but definitely that you know your way around the latest blindfolds, gags and collars. And if you find that you’re the person who gets the random phone calls from your friends about which brand or style to use when they want to get a little freaky with their partner, then you should be leaving the beginner’s bondage gear far behind.


The Rules of Bondage

Of course, if you consider yourself an old pro with the paddles, whips and ticklers, then you probably know a thing or two about bondage etiquette. However, before we move onto the bad boys of the bondage world, it never hurts to review.

Before you use any type of bondage toys with a new partner, it’s always best to have “the talk.” Of course, if you’re going to be bringing it up at all, then chances are that you have a pretty good idea that he or she will be pleasantly responsive. However, it’s best to know for sure before you begin tying someone to a bedpost. While you may think you know someone, a sex toy - ANY sex toy - can bring an entirely different vibe to the relationship. And while you might want that brand-new feather tickler to be a surprise, it’s best to make sure that both parties are on board.

Bondage TapeWhether you typically tend to play the dominant role, the submissive or like to switch things up a bit from time to time, it definitely doesn’t hurt to establish this before you start fighting over who’s going to use the bubblegum-pink bondage tape. And when you play your role, play it well. Crack that whip or be the best “little” on the block. It’s all about living out your fantasies to the fullest. After all, that’s what delighted you about bondage to begin with, right?

When you’ve gone so far, is a “safe word” still definitely a thing? Absolutely! In fact, it’s even more important the further down the rabbit hole you go. Of course, as you know, the reason a safe word was first used was because, due to the nature of fantasy world, it’s important to be sure that both parties know when it’s all part of the game, or when it’s for real. That’s why you should never EVER use a safe word in vain!

    Top Bondage Toys for Pros

    Now that you’ve brushed up on everything that you need to know before you move out of the sandbox, so to speak, it’s about time to go shopping! As with any toy, you’re going to want to look for items that come with a quality guarantee and aren’t cheaply made. Sometimes, you may think you’re getting a good deal, but all you may be getting is the headache of shopping for a new ball gag the minute you’ve finally got it broken in just the way you like it. It’s basically common sense to know that cheap toys are not going to last as long as something of better quality. Of course, you can always find well-made budget toys, but there’s a big difference in something made to last and something only made to last for a short time.

    Plus, if you’re shopping on a quality site like Mindful, you can always contact customer service with any questions that you might have about any of the products that you see. So, are you ready to start browsing?

    Fetish Fantasy Bondage Sex Swing - You know that you’ve really graduated when you decide that it’s time to add a sex swing to your pleasure arsenal. While some may see this item as what may appear to be a medieval torture device, the possibilities are just endless. This will absolutely be the most fun you’ve ever had OUT of bed! Now, don’t fool yourself into thinking that it may not take any time to get used to. This toy has plenty of straps, restraints and bells and whistles, so you’ll need some playtime to get all of the kinks worked out. But once you get the logistics down, you’ll be dreaming every day about getting home to your new playmate. This is your best way to try all different types of positions, while you have zero-gravity sex. Are you in?

    Cage RingsComplete Package Pink Cage Rings Locks - Straight out of yet another time past, a chastity device can build just the right anticipation. Or, you can also toss someone else the keys, and allow them to decide when you get that crushing climax that you’ve been thinking about for days. This is the ideal way to keep a penis on lockdown like no other! That’s right - chastity belts aren’t just for women! This can be worn easily beneath a pair of jeans or even dress slacks. Imagine wearing this bad boy during the next big presentation at the office! As with anything, it may take a little getting accustomed to, or you may find that you were born to wear this from the very start! Get ready for the adventure!

    Zeus Electrosex Nipple Clamps - When regular nipple clamps are feeling just a bit too vanilla these days, the world of electrosex toys has an option just for you! Pop these clamps on your nipples and let the intensity build as little or as much as you’d like! Your nipples will absolutely take center stage with this exciting product!

    Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag - Now, all gags are not created equal, so it’s time to find a special product that really brings on the intensity. This extreme spider gag will spread the mouth to its capacity, meaning that you can take much more than usual inside. It is designed to fit any size or shaped mouth, keeping the ring securely inside.

    Fifty Shades Darker Adrenaline Spikes Metal Pinwheel - Now, there are whips, and then there are whips. These 22 prickly spikes will awaken just about every sense you have, along with some you weren’t even aware of yet. Is it playtime yet?


    The important thing to remember when you’re experimenting with bondage gear is to give into the fantasy! This can be your time to live out any role imaginable, so be sure to take full advantage and enjoy!