The Best Bondage Toys for Beginners
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Maybe you’ve seen some foreplay scenes on your favorite TV show that includes using a tie as a rope restraint, so that one lover can keep the other in place on the bed. Or, perhaps your best friend has been trying to tell you what you’ve been missing. At any rate, it’s probably safe to say that it’s more than piqued a passing interest in the world of fantasy role playing and bondage gear.
Now, if you just start browsing a website with no real education on these toys and how to use them, you may be seeing a few things that might resemble medieval torture devices, or other products that you can’t believe actually exist. But what’s that saying about everything in good time? Well, the same goes for a new sex toy. You can’t just leap right into the most complex products,as it might get a little overwhelming. Instead, try out a few toys that are designed specifically for beginners in the bondage game. But first, what exactly is bondage, and how does it work?
A Bit About Bondage
Bondage toys are basically products that can be used to restrain or pleasurably punish in a number of ways. If you’re first beginning to browse these types of toys, you’ll quickly learn that there are all types of different varieties. Many people love the idea of blindfolds, gags and collars or maybe handcuffs or restraints., while others are more attracted to paddles, whips and ticklers. However you’d like to ease into the fun of bondage, there’s definitely a product for you!
Of course, be sure to talk things out with your partner before you fill up your home with bondage rope and the latest bondage swings. It may not be for everyone, but if it’s for you, simply have a casual conversation about it with your intended partner, and see if he or she is up for a little adventure. Chances are that you’re going to get the green light. After all, who doesn’t enjoy a little mystique in the bedroom? However, it’s always nice to be sure to discuss it in detail - out of respect.
And keep in mind that a lot of things that you’ve seen in a movie or on TV about bondage play is actually pretty true. Having a safe word is not an urban legend. In fact, it’s a very real way to ensure that nothing goes too far without breaking character.
And speaking of characters, it’s up to you to decide which role you’ll play in your fantasy.
- Dominants (or “doms”) enjoy having all the power. They will likely be the ones doing all of the restraining, whipping, tickling and other forms of persuasion.
- Submissives like giving over their power to another person. They enjoy the idea of being tied to a bed, or wearing a love mask or the latest electric nipple clamps.
- And some like to swap back and forth which, not-so-creatively, is often referred to as being a switch.
There are probably plenty of psychological reasons that a person prefers one role to another, but what matters right now is what feels good to you and your partner. Remember, this may be all fun and games, but it’s also a very good way to become even closer to your partner through acts of trust and intimacy.
Top Toys for Newbies
Now that you’re probably ready to find the latest products for beginners, let’s get started with a few favorites!
Fetish Fantasy Spinning Sex Swing and BDSM Beginners Kit - This rotating swing will allow you to achieve positions that you’ve only dreamed about with ease. Plus, it’s an ideal product for beginners to ease into - literally. The seat and stirrups are comfortable, but will allow for tilting, spinning and whatever else your imagination can come up with for the night.
Fetish Fantasy Series Pink Passion Bondage Kit - This exciting bondage kit comes with all of the kinky pleasures you can imagine - and all in the color pink! It includes wrist and ankle cuffs for restraint, four tethers for tying or other creative pleasures, a ball gag to quiet your moans and a sense-heightening blindfold.
Sex & Mischief Impressions XOXO Paddle - Now, we all know that enough naughty deserves a spanking, and it can be the best one of your life with this sensational paddle. Its ultra-sturdy design will leave its mark wherever it’s applied - a flirty XOXO pattern. You’re going to love it!
Nipplettes Vibrating Nipple Clamps - Another adventurous necessity is a “titiating” set of nipple clamps. Let’s admit that we all love the feeling that we get with a firm tug to the nipples, so just imagine this constant, erotic pressure, plus a little vibrating action. You’ll have the happiest nipples on the street!
Fifty Shades Freed Pleasure Overload 10 Days of Pleasure - A big part of getting into bondage gear for the first time is the fun in experimenting. So many toys so little time! That’s why finding a pleasurable variety kit is an absolute must! This Fifty Shades pack will not disappoint - packed to the brim with kinky delights. Start off with a satin love mask and restraints, along with a teasing whip and a flirty tickler. When you’re aching for more, you can reach for the nipple clamps, a bullet vibrator, a stretchy cock ring, kegel balls and an anal plug. You’re going to need an entire weekend to feel the full measure of this exotic kit!
Limited Edition Fetish Fantasy Breathable Ball Gag - This ball gag is ideal for beginners, as it’s breathable and easy to wear. It will quickly become one of your favorite pieces in your sex arsenal!
Hopefully you’ve found quite a few ideas to help get you started with your shopping frenzy on Mindful. And since you may be new to these types of toys, the great thing is that you can always contact the customer service department with any questions that you may have. Now, don’t waste another minute! Find the perfect bondage assortment for you, and let your fantasies come to life!