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How to Introduce Sex Toys to Your Partner

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When it comes to using sex toys for the first time with your partner, you may be feeling a little trepidation. However, there’s absolutely no need to feel this way! Some people worry that they might offend their lover by wanting to include sexual enhancements. But know that wanting a good classic dildo doesn’t mean that you’re not enjoying the action that you receive from the real thing.

When you bring sex toys into any relationship (even if it’s flying solo), it invites a feeling of fantasy, which helps inhibitions to drop. That’s why it’s so fun to start shopping for your first sex toy! You can invite the pleasure in, without feeling inferior or embarrassed in the slightest.

But first, you don’t want to just spring a bag full of goodies on someone out of nowhere. You’ll want to make sure that you’re both on the same page about the way that you feel when it comes to sex.


The “Talk”

This doesn’t have to be anything formal or rehearsed, but you should definitely put some thought it into how you’d like to bring it up. You know your partner the best, so you probably already have a little bit of an idea about how he or she will react. Clear some time when you both aren’t busy, and talk about the things that you like sexually, as well as the things that you’d like to try.

To be honest, one of the best times to do this is actually in bed, and maybe right after a sexual encounter when you’re enjoying a little bit of “pillow talk.” You can talk about what just happened, and maybe what it would have been like had you used massage oils or a really great vibrator.

It’s really important to be sure to mention how your sex life is already great, but that it sounds like fun to explore a little. If you’ve recently watched an adult movie together, you can even mention a certain scene, and how you’d like to try it.

Plus, it doesn’t hurt to connect some of your fantasies to things that you both already like to do when you’re in the act. For example, when he or she grabbed that scarf and tied your hands together last week, that really tuned you both on. So, just imagine if you invested in a few beginner’s bondage toys! You could turn something “great” into something absolutely mind-blowing!

Are you already getting the picture here? The point is that one person or the other in a relationship has to take the step to bring it up. It doesn’t have to be an awkward conversation. See it as yet another way that you can open up to each other and be honest about the way that you’re feeling… along with the myriad of ways that you’d like to feel!


Consider Your Preferences

Next, once you both give the green light, the fun can begin. With so many different types of sex toys out there from which to choose, it may even seem a little overwhelming. That’s why you need to really think about the things that make Nipple Clampsyou feel good when you’re being intimate. If you have sensitive nipples and love the sensation when they’re pinched, think about a nice pair of nipple clamps. If you like the way your penis feels with an extended run and just the right amount of pressure, then a cock ring is probably in order. (Psssttt…. Ladies, you can even get one that vibrates, so you both experience the full effect. Can we say win-win?)

Once you begin to open up your thoughts and let the creative juices flow, then you’re sure to come up with all sorts of enticing toys to buy. Once you get the hang of things, you’ll be looking at strap-ons and harnesses in no time!

But that’s not where things have to end. Feeling like an adventurous Friday night at home? Then break out a couples board game. It’s yet another fantastic way to get to know more about what the other likes, and to open up to each other (literally and figuratively) in new and pleasurable ways.


Start Shopping

The great thing about shopping these days is that with a simple click, your product can be sent to your home and in your bedroom in a matter of days. All that’s left now is to make your choice. In fact, don’t hesitate to explore and start filling up that “naughty drawer” with all of the things that really catch your eye.

And the good news is that you don’t have to break the bank to have a few quality toys at your disposal. There are plenty of amazing inexpensive sex toys from which to choose.


Your New Toys

And now that you’ve received your new toys, you’ll need to know just a few quick things to help get you started.

First of all, always be sure to keep your toys clean. We won’t go into all of the nasty infections that a person can get from putting something dirty inside of their body, but keep this in mind when you’re tempted to use a product that hasn’t been adequately cleaned. Plus, it’s really easy to clean your toys. Typically, a little warm water and soap will do the trick.

Next, remember that a little lube can go a long way. However, it’s always suggested that you use a good water-based lubricant when incorporating any toy into your bedroom routine. When you rub something repeatedly against your skin, it can cause irritation. You definitely do not want this happening to some of the most sensitive parts of your body, let me tell you. Lubes are not very expensive, and they can even provide other sensation like a tingle effect or heat. Really… what’s not to love?


So, what are you waiting for? Start shopping on Mindful, and let the exploration begin!